Oct 31The personal is universal.I kept the feelings close, the hurt a little closer. Strong and quiet, not a burden. It’s not so bad. What I failed to see is that my own pain was yours, too. While I was passing time gazing in the mirror I forgot to see how my own burdens could have made yours so light.Sharing1 min readSharing1 min read
Sep 26Ten years of perspectiveIt’s story time. One of my favorite features on Instagram is the memories. One year ago today, 5 years ago today... I start to feel quite sage when social media starts showing me memories from 10 years prior. …Optimism4 min readOptimism4 min read
Sep 2ClarityHungover on an idyllic summer, returning to Austin was rough. For two days straight I felt lost, tired, lonely, and unsure of where to go next in life. I missed my family and felt impatient for the future. …Finding Clarity4 min readFinding Clarity4 min read
Sep 1Quieting my little demonsWe are all storytellers, whether we want to be or not. We tell stories to the world, and to ourselves about how we show up in it. These narratives dictate how we navigate our lives and guide our daily actions. As a designer, I’m constantly living in the world of…Stories We Tell Ourselves4 min readStories We Tell Ourselves4 min read
Aug 19Caring, deeply.I believe that caring deeply is one of the most attractive qualities you can find in a person. Commitment and passion are precious treasures. …Caring Deeply2 min readCaring Deeply2 min read
Aug 17Becoming who I want to beThe last couple of weeks of another idyllic Northern Michigan summer are here. It’s a universally and frequently stated truth that summer goes by too quickly. Up North, however, I think there’s a special bittersweetness. The locals have been waiting all winter for three months of glory, and the seasonal…Setting Goal4 min readSetting Goal4 min read
Jun 18timelineyet another summer arrives they come so quickly now and you aren’t here. you always said be a life-long learner and I took that to heart. in the 28 years I got to call you dad call you when I needed advice pickup your calls with no agenda other than to say you loved me let you hold my hand when I was little even though it embarrassed me that you cared so much for me I continue to learn to linger a little longerFathers1 min readFathers1 min read
May 23Making decisions, faster.It’s easy to get caught in decision making paralysis. Sometimes we find ourselves at a fork in the road — weighing option A from B. Sometimes, the decisions we face lie miles before options A and B are even in sight. I’ve found myself here, sitting with these kind of…Decison Making4 min readDecison Making4 min read
Mar 11Blessed are the flexiblefor they will not be bent out of shape. — I think my dad told me that once. Or maybe it was painted in a script font on a kitchy white-washed board in someone’s living room. Either way, I love the sentiment. It’s rare that life goes as planned – learning to adapt to change is a super power that…Flexibility3 min readFlexibility3 min read
Mar 11Getting things doneMid-march is here already, and I did not hit publish in February. The draft I’d planned still sits, on the verge of completion, but it is still sitting. …Getting Things Done2 min readGetting Things Done2 min read